If you were drunk or addicted to something or
mentally aberrational, could you recognize that your behavior was different? Do
you know what makes you cry or what makes you angry? Unless emotions are
intensely experienced, many people find difficulty in describing or relating to
their feelings. They sometimes even deny experiencing the emotions of love,
fear, anger or pleasure, because of the lack of conscious awareness of such
emotions. People may even feign love or pleasure to cover up unhappiness and
low self-esteem. Some obese people are unable to tell the difference between
being fearful, angry or hungry, and so they lump all those feelings together as
hunger. Then they feel better about themselves by eating. The hunger for food
and sex also gets confused in some people, whereby food is then used to gratify
sexual frustrations. Sexually promiscuous people sometimes cannot distinguish
between lust, compassion, sorrow, gratitude, kindness -- and love! When you
practice identifying your emotional states as they happen in your life, you
learn how better to manage them. You also learn how to honestly know yourself
better as well.
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